Xander makes it appear he was kidnapped too so that Bonnie will forget he's the one who messed with her on Days of Our Lives during the week of 12-12-22.
Days of Our Lives spoilers for the week of 12-12-22 include Bonnie uncovering the truth about her kidnapping, Chad and Stephanie discussing their future, and more!
I don't know how Rafe mansplained this to you, but I was upset over losing Will and he was upset over losing you and we were just two exes trying to comfort each other.