That's not what I'm saying at all. It a couple has already gotten past the initial betrayal and made the decision to work on things, it can't be done with one person feeling as though they are on probation while the other mistrusts their every action. Yes, the betrayer has to atone, but the betrayed holds all the cards. They either choose to stand by the other person or they don't.
I am doing Homeland! I'm watching for a second time right now. They released the first 3 eps to press. The show is better now that Brody is gone. Really thrilling, gut wrenching stuff. It's going to be difficult to encapsulate it.
Good point about Vince and Dave. They were so much better and far more interesting as the brothers who ran the Haven Herald, giving them knowledge that's invaluable because of their positions, length of time in Haven and their capacity to care about what happened to their beloved town. Now Dave's from "over there" -- just another excuse to stop creating dialog. Right now every actor can be adlibbing and it wouldn't make a difference because there's no actual plot. Just ugh.
We spent an entire season with Mara and William and all we know is they dressed like ginger reads and came from "over there." Considering they never gave us true back story... The why, when, from where or who; they have no intention of doing it and probably don't even have a clear map as to who they are. It's just convenient to shake things up that didn't need to be shaken. I think it's great that some fans will stick with the ideas no matter what, so I'm glad you're enjoying it. For me? I have no faith in this rambling. It's going to go nowhere.
I don't think the burden is on the cheater. It's unfortunate, but that lies with the one who has been wronged. They will either find a space where they can trust their SO again or not. The bottom line is if someone wants to cheat, they will. If they can be honest and their explanation of what happened works for the wronged, then that's it. Earning the trust is part of the discovery process. If the love is there and the relationship can endure, then it will. It's not a pretty scenario, but continuing to mistrust under the guise of trust will only cause more problems. Doc can weigh in. I realize my I married status doesn't rate to some. I have been cheated on, however. It sucks and it's ugly.
That's not trust. That's a relationship that has ended. Not every couple has the same experiences. Some people can trust each other again -- truly trust. But if they're going to spend time looking through facebook, emails, etc., then the wronged person isn't healing. It wouldn't be worth the effort.
I will NOT be positive about an abysmal hour of television just because I once enjoyed the show. If anything, that is the time to be as honest as possible. They need to know they're on the wrong track. The entire hour took place inside and around a cabin with the same "action" as last week. A rather lame Trouble, and Mara blathering on while everyone tried to reach Audrey. Been there done that. They have a big season to go is somehow a reason to come out of the gate like molasses and the sound of fingernails on a chalkboard? No. The show is better than that, the actors deserve more and this isn't even worthy of prime time at the moment. Except syndicated shows used to be better than this, too.
I'm still around. Battling the day after food poisoning, so let me think on this a little and I'll get back to you!
What bridge have you burned. I hope you're not talking about me. No hard feelings here, I'm just too busy to participate and you guys have it rockin. If you want to move the conversation to the renewal news post, it might be easier to keep track. I know you were getting concerned about the number of posts. That said... yay! Renewal. :-)
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